Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Grandma would say~This is Going to Hurt a Bit!
 
 
“For whom the LORD loves He reproves, Even as a father corrects the son in whom he delights.” Proverbs 3:12
 I can remember a few years back I was doing what most forty year olds do. Having braces put on my teeth. “This is going to hurt a bit.” Not exactly what you want to hear when someone has her hands in your mouth along with the dentist, even if she is a dear friend and a lovely person. While working on a wide space that was not closing on my teeth, the orthodontist assistant was working away while saying  comforting things to me with the promise of results. Suddenly, a loud crunch and a excruciating pain filled the upper right side of my mouth where the gap was. As tears rolled down my cheeks she said,  “Dr. D had to do that to close the gap and pull your teeth together quicker. But over the next few days you are going to hurt. Sorry but we had to cause some pain to get your teeth where you want them to be.” Wearing braces as an adult was bad enough, but some days I really did wonder if the pain was worth the benefits to my teeth and the smile I was looking for.
I recall the discipline Grandma used to give when I was younger. With it there would often be the reminder story of a new little tree planted in the ground and how it had to be tied down tightly and staked where the wind could not blow it into a deep bended slump. She would tell me that the little tree had to be disciplined and almost painfully tightly tied to where it would grow up big, straight and tall to be able to carry all the weight it needed to hold.
There are many days when I open up God’s Word and He delivers the same message as the orthodontist assistant: “This is going to hurt a bit, but the power of My Word working on your heart will help get you to a healthy place.” Hurt a bit? What kind of pain are we talking about here? “The pain of correction,” God answers.
Part of understanding God’s loving correction is understanding God’s ~Agape~ love.
The love of not allowing me to go my own why, because His way is much better even if it causes great pain to keep me from bending the wrong way.  
As an example, God points out my anger, which is a sin. His Word says, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God” Philippians 4:6. Retraining my thoughts can be a painful progress. Prayer requires discipline instead of allowing my thoughts and feelings to naturally gravitate toward the object of my anger. God whispers to me that He has more for me.
 He carefully draws my attention to the thoughts I allowed to brew about a rude email from someone I thought loved me. “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is respected or praiseworthy—think about these things” Philippians 4:8.
If my thoughts about her are not, noble, right, pure, lovely and admirable, He says they must go and be replaced with His. My heart squirms and my feelings say no. Though I don’t want to, my mind says: Is the discipline needed to change going to be worth it? Other times shame tries to find a corner in my heart: You know better; you should be past this point. Then I remember today’s verse, “For whom the LORD loves He reproves, Even as a father corrects the son in whom he delights” (Proverbs 3:12). The Holy Spirit corrects me because He knows I want to be a woman who honors my Heavenly Father. To become that woman there is going to be discomfort and sometimes pain involved. The phrases, “whom the Lord loves” and “in whom he delights” provide relief and encouragement when God’s Word sets the power chain of correction into motion.
 My Father loves me with His ~Agape~ love; He is crazy about me! As I dearly loved and enjoyed my children with us before they were grown and the way I love my little grandkids, the Father loves and enjoys me, only more so! This is the message I have to speak to my heart when it says God wants me to suffer because He is mad or disappointed in me. Not so. He wants what is best for me, including doing what it takes to grow more like Him. So as Grandma Lela would tell me to pray I need to speak to Him.
Lord, it can be hard to equate Your correction with Your love. Keep my heart soft and my mind open as I read Your Word. Discipline me because of Your devotion to me. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. ~ Feels like another hug from Grandma <3

Monday, February 10, 2014

GRANDMA SAYS ~ "BEWARE OF CERTAIN ASSOCIATIONS!"

"It is easy to be pulled down, but hard to pull someone up." ~ Spurgeon

 

AVOID? "Grandma, you must be kidding! "Yes my sweet child, God says AVOID." Grandma Lela's advice was, "We must avoid friendships with those who have certain character defects." "But why, again I ask! You say I must love all people like Jesus, but then avoid people?" "Yes, my darling, for God says that those whom you tie your soul too, their attitudes rub off on you and you become like them! Unbelievers and believers not walking with the Lord. You can love them, but not let their thoughts and attitudes influence yours, she said!" The Bible not only warns us against associating with scoffers and fools, but it also warns us against having a close relationship with people who have certain character defects.

This is the kind of person who always has unfavorable news about someone which he passes on with great delight
THE GOSSIP ~ This is the kind of person who always has unfavorable news about someone which he passes on with great delight. Those that like to sow discord among everyone.
The Bible says,
"He who goes about as a talebearer (gossiper) reveals secrets: therefore do not associate with him...." Proverbs 20:19
He also says in Proverbs 6 what He HATES:
16 These six things the Lord hates,
Yes, seven are an abomination to Him:
17 A proud look,
A lying tongue,
Hands that shed innocent blood,
18 A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that are swift in running to evil,
19 A false witness who speaks lies,
And one who sows discord among brethren.
THE CRITICAL AND DISCONTENT~ Beware of building relationships with those who have a bitter and critical spirit, who harbor unforgiveness, especially those who are resentful and rebellious toward those in authority. If you associate with them, they will pass this critical spirit on to you.
THOSE WHO ARE ANGRY~ The quick-tempered person does not know how to control his anger. If you associate with him, you will learn his ways. The Bible says,
"Do not make friends with an angry person, and do not associate with a wrathful person, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare." Proverbs 22:24-25
Let me give you a very Wise man's example:
Once a young lady came to see the great preacher, Charles H. Spurgeon. She told him of a deep friendship she had with an unbelieving young man. She said that her aim was to lead him to Christ and that she had decided to be engaged to him fairly soon.
Since she was seeking his advice, Spurgeon asked the young lady to stand on a table. Then he told her to grasp his hand and try her best to pull him up onto the table. She tried, but of course could not do it.
Then Spurgeon said, "Now watch what happens when I pull you." With just one pull, she came down.
Spurgeon then said, "It is easy to be pulled down, but hard to pull someone up." At once the girl saw what would happen in this relationship with the unsaved man.
"So you see, it is so much easier for us to be pulled into the world than for others to be pulled out. We are in the world but not of the world!" she said. We can do all we can to love others and share the love of Jesus, but remember to choose very wisely who to become close to and beware of  some of our associations." ~ Grandmas love..... Just like a big hug!

Saturday, February 8, 2014

GOD'S WORD ~vs~ CHRISTIAN PSYCHOLOGY

Grandma said: I have a lot to say about any thing that contradicts God's Word. It's a bit long but needs to be explained.

~One does not deal with SIN ~

God says we are to search the scriptures daily on how to live in His commands.
To search the scriptures daily, is to say you need to live by what God's WORD says. So when we are critiquing, evaluating psychology, the concepts and the beliefs that come to us from Freud, Jung, Maslow, Rogers and so on, we are holding them up to the Word of God. Speaking generally about this, the Lord willing we need to get into very specific detail about the teachings of psychology and how they are contrary to the Word of God. For openers, let’s make a brief comparison of some things. The foundational concept of psychological counseling is that humans are inherently good, yet the Bible says that all have sinned and come short of the glory of God. Romans 3:23 So, how do you reconcile that, those who are Christians and claim that psychology is really a way to go?
Paul says, Oh, wretched man that I am, who will deliver me from myself, really? The Bible says the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked (Jeremiah 17:9)—all have sinned, the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23). So, psychology of course, does not acknowledge that. We have to explain it, I guess, probably repeatedly. What are we talking about? Wait a minute, you’re not talking about Christian psychology, are you? Of course, Christian psychology is based on the Bible, right? No, Christian psychology is not based on the Bible! Christian psychology is based upon psychology. The psychological principles that have been discovered and taught by godless atheists, every one of them, as far as I know that are opposed to the Bible. 
~ So, psychology actually is an attempt to explain human behavior and to improve or adjust human behavior without God and without His Word. In other words, the answer is within myself. As you said, I’m okay, you’re okay, the problem is, I suffered some traumas in my childhood, now I’ve got to go back and get rid of that, but other than that I just follow the principles of psychology.~
Now without that concept, without that foundational belief, practicing psychologists would have nothing to do. There would be no way they could solve man’s problems, because, think about it logically, if I am innately, inherently evil, you know, within, then I can’t change myself and you can’t change me either, it’s like a leopard trying to change its spots. It just can’t happen, but if I’m good within, and my problems are external to me, my environment, my parents, just something that’s outside of me, then they’ve got a way to go. It's my past that makes me think this way and do these things. They can change those things, at least even superficially and make changes in a life. But if I’m, again, inherently evil, as the Bible says, there’s no hope for me and there’s nothing they do. Again, they do not deal with sin, but His Words do when are applied to my life by the power of the Holy Spirit.
16 Every Scripture is God-breathed (given by His inspiration) and profitable for instruction, for reproof and conviction of sin, for correction of error and discipline in obedience, [and] for training in righteousness (in holy living, in conformity to God’s will in thought, purpose, and action), 2 Timothy 3
12 God’s Word is living and powerful. It is sharper than a sword that cuts both ways. It cuts straight into where the soul and spirit meet and it divides them. It cuts into the joints and bones. It tells what the heart is thinking about and what it wants to do. Hebrews 4:12  
Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet, a light unto my path. I have sworn and I will perform it, that I will keep thy righteous judgments.” Psalm 119, is all about the Word of God, the statutes, His judgments, and so forth, that’s the subject of the whole thing.
It points to the reconciliation to God through Jesus Christ as the solution to man’s mental, emotional, behavioral problems.
Colossians 1:21, 22: “And you, that were sometime alienated and enemies in your mind by wicked works, yet now hath He (that is, Jesus Christ) reconciled in the body of his flesh through death, to present you holy and unblamable and unreprovable in His sight.” 
There's your answer right there!
The Words of God are complete and we are complete in Him. There are no need to have psychotherapy or psychological counseling added to it, and if Christ lives in me, it’s no more I, but Christ living in me, He has become my life. I now live by the power of the Holy Spirit, who is God in me. It would be an insult to Jesus Christ to come to a psychiatrist or psychologist and say, Well now, Christ is living in me but He needs a little help from Freud or Jung, and so forth, could you council Jesus so He could do a little better job of living His life through me?
The Holy Bible clearly says that Jesus Christ has all power, authority, and dominion over believers--Christ's message is sufficient; UNLESS you are a contemporary worldly clergy man or deceived person brainwashed in the secular humanism drenching the seminaries of today. Then the Scriptures are not sufficient. Now you need the "discovered" truths of secular, humanistic, behavioral Psychology/Psychiatry.
God would say the root of psychology is bad, and therefore, the fruit cannot be good. I’m amazed at the acceptance of psychology in our society and especially in the church. Many churches and ministries have resident psychiatrists on staff. This isn’t the approach Jesus took. He met the needs, all the needs of the people through the power of the Holy Spirit, and I believe He intends His church to do the same. They don’t have to depart and go to the world to get their emotional needs met. They should bring them to Jesus (Matt. 14:16-18).
I know many Christians are appalled at these statements. Aren’t there Christian psychologists? Certainly there are. There are some who are very successful psychologists. But they will be the first to admit that psychology and Christianity do not offer the same answers to our problems. The born again, Holy Spirit filled counselor will use their position to bring the truths of the Gospel to people who would never come to the church for help. If the people will receive the truths of God’s Word, they don’t need any other help. If they won’t receive the Gospel, then in some cases, so called Christian psychology is better than what they have.
Christianity and psychology have some things in common:
They both state that our actions are the product of inner processes. But in describing what those processes are and how to change them, Christianity and psychology do take the opposite approach. For one thing, the very word “psychology” reveals an anti-god approach.
The word “psychology” comes from the Greek word "psycho", which is a derivative of the Greek word "psyche" meaning “soul.” Psychology looks no deeper than the soul of man for answers. It totally ignores the spirit realm: our spirits, God’s Holy Spirit, and demonic spirits. The Word of God is replete with teachings and examples of the influence of God, demons, and our spirits on our actions. Any “answer” that doesn’t take the spirit realm into account isn’t going to the root of the problem. The Greek word "psyche" was also the name of the Greek god of the soul. "eros" and "psyche" were lovers in Greek mythology.
 Here are just four major fallacies of psychology that I believe are incompatible with biblical Christianity:
1) We are products of our environment and our past.
2) Therefore, we are not responsible or accountable for our actions.
3) This leads to placing blame for our actions on anything else but on us, making us victims.
4) Self-esteem is paramount.
Let’s look at these areas in the light of Scripture.
Environment is not the determining factor in who we are and what we do.
Proverbs 23:7 says,
“For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.”
Isaiah 55:8-9
God’s ways are higher than our ways, His thoughts higher than our thoughts
The Word of God shows us that OUR thoughts are what make us the way we are. Environment has some influence on your thoughts, but it is totally wrong to say you’re the way you are because of what has happened to you. If that were true, then everyone who has been through the same negative experiences would have the same problems. That’s not so. You can find siblings with the same genetic make-up and environment who respond totally different to the same situation.
 We always have the choice of becoming bitter or better.
 God gave us that choice.
Deuteronomy 30:19 says,
“I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live.”
Colossians 3 If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. 'SET' your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.
God said the choice is ours, and what a simple one: life or death. A “no-brainer.” But just in case anyone isn’t sure which to choose, the Lord gave the answer to this quiz. “Choose life,” He said.
We are not doomed to be victims because of past experiences. We can be born again and become brand-new people through the power of Christ. Psychology doesn’t offer that.
Since our conditions are a product of how we chose to react to our environment, we can’t blame others for our problems. Taking responsibility for our actions is the big difference between true Christianity and psychology. Psychology has influenced our society to such a degree that no one is held accountable for their actions. Even murderers are being acquitted because it’s "not their fault"; they were abused as children or whatever. That’s stupid. Some of us have had problems that others haven’t, but God still holds us accountable for our own actions, regardless of what has happened to us.
The night before Jesus was crucified, He told His disciples not to let their hearts be troubled but to be of good cheer (John 14:1 and 16:33). Those who hold to the belief that our environment is the determining factor in our emotions and actions would criticize Jesus for telling His disciples to do something they were incapable of doing. But they had a choice.
The Lord told us to rejoice in the Lord always (Phil. 4:4). We can choose to go against the pressures of our environment.
In John 16:33, Jesus told His disciples,
“These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.”
In this passage, Jesus told His disciples that they would have tribulation. What an understatement! They would see Jesus crucified in just a matter of hours. Their hopes would be dashed. Sadness and confusion would overwhelm them. Fear would cause them to live behind locked doors for the next three days. Yet, Jesus told them to be of good cheer. That wasn’t unreasonable; it was doable. And we can do it too if we don’t listen to the psychobabble of today.
There is much, much more  on how to harness your emotions through God's word and the power of His Holy Spirit. These are just a few  illustrations of these truths. There are many major differences between Christianity and psychology. I firmly believe that psychology undermines true Christianity, and these differences need to be pointed out. The devil and his demons have used psychology to creep into nearly every aspect of our lives, and most of us don’t  even know it.
 ~Books written by Pastor Bob Hoekstra, Calvary Chapel and edited by Pastor Chuck Smith ~
'The Psychologizing of the Faith' and How to Counsel God's Way',  presented in whole.

A subtle and deadly process is at work in the church today, in which the Christian faith is being "psychologized"–redefining the Christian faith by the intrusion of psychological thinking, related to secularism. Many Christians still rely on the human experts who have been trained in psychological theory for counseling and direction for their lives. In this book, Pastor Bob Hoekstra calls the church to leave the broken cisterns of human wisdom and to return to the fountain of living water which flows from our wonderful counselor, Jesus Christ


Friday, February 7, 2014

His Delay

~ WHEN GOD DELAYS ~


Yet when He heard that Lazarus was sick,
He stayed where He was two more days. - John 11:6

Delays in our life are not always easy to handle or to reconcile in our minds. Often, when God does not answer our prayers in th...e time that we feel He should, we appoint all sorts of characteristics to God's nature that imply He does not care. Such was the case with Lazarus' sisters when... Lazarus became ill and died. Jesus was a close friend to Lazarus and his two sisters, Mary and Martha. When Jesus arrived two days later, Martha shamed Him by saying, "If You had come he would not have died." She implied that He didn't care enough to come when sent for. It was a matter of priorities for Jesus, not lack of love.
God often has to delay His work in us in order to accomplish something for His purposes that can be achieved only in the delay. Jesus had to let Lazarus die in order for the miracle that was about to take place to have its full effect. If Jesus had simply healed a sick man, the impact of the miracle would not have been as newsworthy as resurrecting a man who had been dead for four days. This is Jesus' greatest "public relations act" of His whole ministry. What many do not realize is that the key to the whole story is in the next chapter.
Many people, because they had heard that He had given this miraculous sign, went out to meet Him.

So the Pharisees said to one another,

"See, this is getting us nowhere. Look how the whole world has gone after Him!" John 12:18-19

If Jesus had not waited and raised Lazarus from the dead, there would have been no crowds to cheer the Lord when He came into Jerusalem riding on a donkey.
God often sets the stage so that His glory is revealed through the events that He orchestrates. He did this with Moses and Pharaoh, allowing delay after delay for release of the Israelites from Egypt. He did this with Abraham and Sarah for the promised child, Isaac. God granted Sarah a baby past the age of childbearing in order to demonstrate His power.


Do not faint as God places you in what seems to be a holding pattern. God is at work. God knows the purposes for His delays. Don't give up, for they are for His greater glory; so we need to remain faithful. ~ Maranatha ~

Monday, February 3, 2014

A Timely Greg Laurie Devotions <><
SLEEPWALKING

Be on your guard, not asleep like the others. Stay alert and be clearheaded.
Have you ever gone sleepwalking? It's kind of scary, really — especially the next day when someone tells you what you did.

There are people in the church today who have gone to sleep. They aren't watching the signs of the times. There is a lethargy, a passiveness — even a laziness — in some Christians. There is an apparent disconnect between their so-called spiritual lives and real lives. Instead of walking in the Spirit, some believers are sleepwalking.

We need to wake up. The Bible says, "So be on your guard, not asleep like the others. Stay alert and be clearheaded" (1 Thessalonians 5:6, NLT).

In other words, we need to wake up to the urgency of the time. We need to wake up to the imminence of the Lord's return.

We also need to sober up. First Thessalonians 5 goes on to say, "Night is the time when people sleep and drinkers get drunk. But let us who live in the light be clearheaded, protected by the armor of faith and love, and wearing as our helmet the confidence of our salvation" (verses 7-8, NLT).

I think we can interpret this both literally and figuratively. An obvious interpretation is, don't get drunk. Don't be under the influence of anyone or anything except Jesus Christ. But figuratively speaking, we can be intoxicated with other things. Jesus said, "Watch out! Don't let your hearts be dulled by carousing and drunkenness, and by the worries of this life. Don't let that day catch you unaware" (Luke 21:34, NLT). What you will eat or wear or where you will live are normal human concerns as you provide for yourself and your family. But let's not allow these things to become our preoccupation.

Let's not allow ourselves to become intoxicated with things that aren't the main thing.
FEAR = WISDOM
How important is it to FEAR God? ~ Fear of God is the idea of living in respect, reverence, awe, and submission to Him as a deity. The Old and New Testaments cry out of His Mercy but equally of His Justice. Very few of this last generation know the fear of God. They only believe that God's mercy and grace allows them to do as they please. But soon they will know that each of us will give an account of our lives to God, and He is fully aware of everything we think, desire, speak, and do. The fear of the Lord is an awareness of these truths. It can be defined as a continual awareness that you are in the presence of a holy, just, and almighty God, and that every motive, thought, word, and action is open before Him and will be judged by Him.
~ And his mercy is on them that fear him from generation to generation. ~ Luke 1:50

Thursday, January 30, 2014

My Redeemer Lives

My God is living and knows right where I am day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute. He sees my every need, hears my every cry, and longs to hold me close to Himself. He is present to walk with me through the valley. He provides a song in the night. He takes my feet from the muck and mire and plants them on a rock. He blesses me with hope and gives joy for Life’s journey ~ He does this for me and He will do it for you, if you call out His glorious name to come and light your way.~ Job 19:25 I know that my Redeemer lives, and that in the end he will stand upon the earth.~ Maranatha